I already mentioned the passing of Oral Roberts this week but there was also a pastor who was not as nearly well known who passed away in our community in the past seven days – Harold Reid.
I met Harold when I first started Church Without Limits and I was contacted by a pastor inviting me out to a bi-weekly prayer meeting of local pastors. I was only 22 and I remember being incredibly nervous as I went to meet with this group of men to pray – Harold was one of those men. I quickly got over the nervousness and have been greatly enriched over the years by these times of prayer.
Approximately a year ago I heard Harold was sick – I had not been able to attend the meetings as much so I was a little disconnected. I would hear bits and pieces and then this past Monday received an e-mail letting us know that Harold had gone home to Heaven.
This past week my brother and I attended the “Celebration Service” for his life at Pickering Pentecostal Church. It was a great time of reflection and sharing from a number of significant people – Harold obviously impacted many, many people.
After leaving the service there were several things that really stuck with me:
- Harold was a great husband – Harold obviously loved his wife very deeply and really saw her as a partner in ministry. You could tell that he really valued and supported her – and encouraged her in what God had called her to do. This reminded me of how important it is that I cherish, support and encourage my wife.
- Harold had a huge heart for the nations – one of those sharing commented how excited he was when someone from a new nation was added to their church body (they ultimately had 76 nations represented I think). Two of his children were married to spouses of a different race and yet he was completely supportive and accepting (sadly, even in Christian circles this is not always the case). This reminded me of the importance of having a heart for the nations and celebrating diversity.
- Harold was passionate to release people into ministry – from calling himself the pastoral team leader, to his insistence that everyone was called to ministry, to the fact that the pastor replacing him had served alongside him for nearly 15 years it was obvious that Harold was not just about himself but he was about teams and seeing people released into ministry. This reminded me of the importance of always cultivating the same heart.
- The importance of investing my life – as I sat in the funeral I began to reflect on the day that my funeral will happen (many, many years from now
). What do I want people so say? What kind of legacy do I want to leave? How hard am I pushing towards that right now? I was really reminded that some things matter, and many things ultimately do not. I want to focus on the things that matter.
One last thought – I have to admit that there were several times over the years that I disagreed quite strongly with a position that Harold took, or theology he held during our times of discussion and prayer (one thing I love about the pastors gatherings is that there is a genuine love and openness – and we can debate topics and discuss issues without becoming offended at each other). I hadn’t realized how much this had impacted my view of him – I sometimes saw him through the lense of our disagreement.
The funeral reminded me that he was a great man who loved God, loved his family, loved the church and loved those who do not know Jesus. I knew this of course, but there were moments that I would lose sight of it. I was reminded and challenged that even when I disagree with a brother or sister in Christ that they are still my brother or sister and we are ultimately playing on the same team.



